Social Security Benefits Can Be Maximized Post Final Divorce Decree

Divorce Final? How To Maximize Your Social Security Retirement Benefit By Utilizing The Divorced Spouse Benefit

social security retirement benefit divorceYour divorce is finalized!  It is over and done, and you have moved on with your life.  The assets, monetary accounts, retirement accounts, and the like all have been divided per the divorce decree.  With that divorce decree in hand, you ex-spouse is no longer entitled to any future benefit you may receive, and that goes the same for you.  However, there is one benefit you want to keep in mind when you are approaching retirement age.  That benefit is the ability to collect Social Security Retirement on your ex-spouses record even if he or she has remarried!  Like all government benefits there are some requirements you must meet in order to collect under your ex-spouse’s work record.

This benefit, entitled divorced spouse benefit, requires the following:

  • Your marriage lasted 10 years or longer;
  • You are currently unmarried;
  • You are 62 years or older;
  • Your ex-spouse is entitled to Social Security retirement or disability benefits; and
  • The benefit you are entitled to receive based on your own work record is less than the benefit you would receive based on your ex-spouse’s work record.

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Separation: What is the Difference Between a “Separation” and a “Legal Separation” in the State of Ohio?

Delaying your divorce? Things you should know before filing for legal separation; an unexpected court decision for you and your spouse

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When I began to practice family law in 1988, there were three (3) major proceedings in the Domestic Relations Courts of the State of Ohio:

  • Divorce:  Wherein one party files a Complaint for Divorce and the other party generally files an Answer and Counterclaim. The proceeding is assigned to a Judge and the case is managed by that Judge and the Court.  The parties’ marriage would be terminated via a Final Judgment and Decree of Divorce. A divorce proceeding generally takes nine (9) months to twelve (12) months to reach closure.
  • Dissolution:  Wherein the parties file a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage with a Separation Agreement attached thereto.  This proceeding is characterized as being “settled” at the time of filing.  A hearing is held at least thirty (30) days after the filing of the Petition and the parties marriage is terminated via a Final Decree of Dissolution of Marriage.  This proceeding is generally less expensive and less traumatic/emotional as all issues are “resolved” via the parties’ Separation Agreement.
  • Alimony Only:  Wherein one party, usually the “financially disadvantaged” Wife,
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Tax Deduction: Divorce Legal Fees

Are Your Legal Fees From your Divorce Tax Deductible? Tax Deduction Often Overlooked!

tax deduction divorceGenerally speaking, the IRS does not allow a write-off for court costs and legal fees stemming from a divorce.  It does, however, offer deductions for any portions of those fees related to tax advice and alimony.

What Fees Can Be Considered Tax Deductable During A Divorce?

According to the IRS, legal fees that are specifically spent to collect spousal support can be included under “other expenses” with the itemized deductions listed on Schedule A of tax form 1040.  This write-off is also available for any proceeding in which a spouse is attempting to collect taxable spousal support, increase the amount of support, or collect any past due amount. It is important to note, however, that the IRS does not allow a deduction for the cost of trying to collect non-taxable income during divorce, such as overdue child support or temporary spousal support.  In addition, it does not allow for the deduction of any of your spouse’s legal fees that you may be ordered to pay.  What it does allow for is a write-off for any research and time spent on tax-related subjects such as real … Read More... “Tax Deduction: Divorce Legal Fees”

Divorce: Helping Children Succeed After Divorce Seminar – Hosted By The Greene County Domestic Relations Court

Greene County Domestic Relations Court Seminar To Help Children Succeed Post Divorce – A Review and Breakdown

divorce seminar childrenOn Saturday, February 22, 2016, I had the opportunity to attend a seminar entitled “Helping Children Succeed After Divorce.” The seminar was held at the Greene County Domestic Relations Court located at 595 Ledbetter Road, Xenia, Ohio. The cost for attending the program is included in the Court’s filing fee for either a divorce, dissolution of marriage, or legal separation proceeding. The Court has three (3) two-hour seminars per month to accommodate the working schedules of all parties. Two seminars are held in the evening from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. and one seminar is held on one Saturday per month from 9:30 a.m. until 11:30 a.m.

Parents of minor children are “ordered” at attend this seminar and a failure to attend could result in a loss of parenting time (also known as visitation) until the non-compliant parent attends the seminar. To schedule an appointment time for the mandatory divorce seminar, parties are instructed to call (937) 562-6249, Extension 0 to schedule their date and time to attend the workshop. Although parents must attend the mandatory divorce seminar, the parties are not required … Read More... “Divorce: Helping Children Succeed After Divorce Seminar – Hosted By The Greene County Domestic Relations Court”

Native American Divorce Court: Potential Issues When A Spouse Is A Member Of A Native American Tribe

Does a State Court Have Jurisdiction Involving Native American Couples In Divorce, Domestic Relations And Marital Assets?

native american divorceThroughout the years and probably over dozens of cases, the United States Supreme Court has it made clear that Native American tribes are self-governing and sovereign entities whose powers are only limited by the federal government. As a result, reservations are considered independent of state and local power.  With that in mind, what happens when a state court is presented with a divorce where one spouse is Native American?  Does a state court even have jurisdiction (the right to hear a case and make a decision), or power over an enrolled tribal member?  Does a state court have the ability to divide Native American assets upon divorce?

To start, a Native American tribe has jurisdiction over any domestic relations dealing with their members or arising out of their land.  However, in 1953, Congress enacted Public Law (PL) 280 (codified as 18 U.S.C. 1360).  This federal law established a method whereby states may assume jurisdiction over criminal offenses involving Native Americans on tribal lands. In addition, PL 280 opened state courts up as forums for civil litigation that had previously only been allowed in … Read More... “Native American Divorce Court: Potential Issues When A Spouse Is A Member Of A Native American Tribe”

Dayton Divorce Attorney Recommends Hiring A Therapist

How Hiring a Therapist Can Have A Profound Effect On The Resolution Of Your Divorce Case

divorce therapistObviously going through an unexpected or difficult divorce can be one of the most stressful experiences in an individual’s life.  While many clients can navigate the process unassisted without professional help, others really cannot.  Some people think that they can talk with family members or friends to help pull them through. Typically, however, those who are deeply distressed really need professional help by a therapist to guide them through the entire process and transition to their life post-divorce.  Many people view having a therapist or counselor as a sign of weakness.  It certainly is not.  My experience as a divorce attorney for over 35 years is that when the attorney and therapist work together, it can often eliminate years of paralysis for a client.

In thinking through this and in preparation of writing this blog article, I have tried to list some of the areas that the therapist can help with.  Some of those include:

  1. Helping Make the Decision.  Probably most people who seek therapists, at the time they get to see the divorce lawyer, have already determined whether or not they are going
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Divorce Book Review: DIVORCE: How to Tell The Kids: A Parent’s Guide to Breaking the News Without Breaking Their Hearts

Author Vikki Stark Conducts Over 100 Interviews With Children For New Book About Separation And Divorce

divorce children separationVikki Stark, a divorce recovery specialist and a family therapist for over thirty (30) years, published this book in 2015. Her stated purpose in writing the book was to make the “telling” to the children of the news that a family was going to be separating as non-traumatic as possible. To research this subject area, the author conducted over one hundred (100) interviews with children and with adults who were children when their parents separated and divorced. She also interviewed parents who had already done the “telling” to their children to learn about their positive and negative experiences in doing so. Finally, she read and researched many articles written by other professionals in the same field.

The main points from Chapter 1, A Bridge to Your Next Life, are as follows:

  1. You cannot avoid the anger or sorrow that your children may feel; but you can learn skills to reduce the trauma.
  2. You must become “attuned” to your children’s emotions. Attunement means listening carefully to what they are saying, acknowledging and accepting their feelings.
  3. Hearing or reading the actual words of children who have
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