Steps to Take to Financially Prepare for a Divorce

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financial preparation for divorceIt goes without saying, divorce is an extremely difficult and emotional journey. It can be overwhelming and it will most likely affect and change many aspects of life including finances. Financial preparation for divorce is crucial in order to move forward in your divorce. Separating finances with two spouses can be messy. In order to do so, each partner needs to prepare in order to ensure security and stability both during the divorce proceedings and after the divorce is finalized.

There are certainly things both parties can do to financially prepare for divorce. Here are some tips for those going through this sticky situation.

Gathering Financial Documents

One of the first steps to do is to gather all financial documents, including tax returns, all accounts including savings, checking and investment accounts, pay stubs, property records (home, land, vehicles) credit card statements, debts, and any retirement account statements such as 4014K plans, IRA’s, or pensions.

This is important for each party to fully understand what they own as individual accounts as well as accounts held together. This is most definitely a daunting and time-consuming task; however it is very important in order to entangle financial ties. In addition, all this information … Read More... “Steps to Take to Financially Prepare for a Divorce”

How Divorce Can Impact Children’s Financial Accounts

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Children’s financial accounts during a divorce process..should you be concerned?

How Your Children’s Financial Accounts Might Be Impacted From Your Divorce

childrens financial accounts divorceNavigating the divorce process can be particularly challenging for families. While dividing assets is rarely easy in any scenario, determining how to divide accounts you started for your children during your marriage can raise additional questions and concerns.

Types of children’s financial accounts

There are several types of accounts parents open for their children. Some of the most typical accounts are 529 plans for education-related savings, joint checking accounts, trust funds, interest-earning accounts, and custodial accounts.

Education savings accounts (529 plans)

These plans are named after Section 529 of the Internal Revenue Code, are not deductible, and offer other tax advantages. 529 plans help families pay for future qualifying education-related expenses like tuition or post-secondary training.

In most cases, the custodial parent in a divorce should be the 529 plan account owner. Because these plans are considered assets of the account owner, how the courts handle these accounts during the division of marital assets is sometimes difficult to predict. In some cases, a judge will exclude 529 plans from the division of assets, in other cases they may require … Read More... “How Divorce Can Impact Children’s Financial Accounts”

Gray Divorce – Refocusing and Obtaining Experienced Legal Advice

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Securing A Divorce Lawyer For Experienced Gray Divorce Advice

Extended Mortality Rates and Financial Independence Has Led to Dramatic Rise in ‘Gray Divorce’ Over the Last Decade

gray divorceThe number of “gray divorces” has increased dramatically over the last 10 years. These are divorces between couples over age 50 and often in a long-term marriage. Here is a link to read the first blog post I wrote about it in 2015. This increase certainly may have been influenced by the extended mortality rates, societal shifts with less stigma regarding divorcing, as well as women becoming more independent financially.

When I talk with folks who fall into this category, I hear similar explanations why they want to end their long-term marriage. Often, I hear that they stayed together primarily for the sake of their minor children. Now that they are “empty nesters” they feel “free” to move on with their life and focus on their own wants. The other reason I hear often is that the 2 have simply grown apart and really aren’t in love any more or that they were just going through the business/motions of a marriage because “that is what you do.”

In further discussion, it seems that … Read More... “Gray Divorce – Refocusing and Obtaining Experienced Legal Advice”

The Importance of Financial Planners for Clients Facing Divorce or Dissolution

fin_divorce.jpgI generally begin my articles for our Family Blog Web Site with a definition of the topic or subject that I am addressing, and this month’s article will not deviate from that practice.  Finance is defined by Webster’s New World Dictionary as being “the science of managing money”.  And, Financial Planner is defined by Wikipedia as “a practicing professional who helps people deal with various personal financial issues through proper planning, which includes but is not limited to these major areas: cash flow management, education planning, estate planning, investment planning, risk management and insurance planning, tax planning, estate planning and business succession planning (for business owners).  The work engaged in by this professional is commonly known as personal financial planning.  In carrying out the planning function, he or she is guided by the financial planning process to create a financial plan – a detailed strategy tailored to a client’s specific situation, for meeting a client’s specific goals.”

Jay Buckingham, CFP, of Buckingham Financial Group has been my personal Financial Planner for over ten (10) years.  In order to assist me with the preparation of this article, I recently met with Jay to discuss his role as a Financial Planner.  I … Read More... “The Importance of Financial Planners for Clients Facing Divorce or Dissolution”

Supreme Court Says Ex-Wife Gets Former Husband’s 401(K) Savings And Investment Account, Despite Divorce Decree Language To The Contrary

401plan.jpgLast month, Justice Souter of the United States Supreme Court issued a unanimous decision in the case of Kennedy v. Plan Administrator for DuPont Savings and Investment Plan. A dispute had arisen between husband’s estate and his ex-wife over receipt of his Savings and Investment Plan proceeds. A SIP is an “employee pension benefit plan” similar to a 401(K) plan subject to federal ERISA laws. Early on in the marriage, husband had named his wife as the beneficiary to his employer’s SIP plan. The parties divorced and the divorce decree language said that the wife was “divested of all right, title, interest, and claim in and to . . . any and all sums . . . the proceeds [from], and any other rights related to . . . retirement plan, pension plan, or like benefit program existing by reason of [the husband’s] past, present or future employment.” However, the husband never executed a form to remove the wife as his beneficiary of the plan nor did he submit a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) to the employer covering the SIP. He did, however, submit a QDRO covering his pension.

The husband passed away and the parties’ daughter requested … Read More... “Supreme Court Says Ex-Wife Gets Former Husband’s 401(K) Savings And Investment Account, Despite Divorce Decree Language To The Contrary”