Dayton Divorce Attorney Recommends Hiring A Therapist

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How Hiring a Therapist Can Have A Profound Effect On The Resolution Of Your Divorce Case

divorce therapistObviously going through an unexpected or difficult divorce can be one of the most stressful experiences in an individual’s life.  While many clients can navigate the process unassisted without professional help, others really cannot.  Some people think that they can talk with family members or friends to help pull them through. Typically, however, those who are deeply distressed really need professional help by a therapist to guide them through the entire process and transition to their life post-divorce.  Many people view having a therapist or counselor as a sign of weakness.  It certainly is not.  My experience as a divorce attorney for over 35 years is that when the attorney and therapist work together, it can often eliminate years of paralysis for a client.

In thinking through this and in preparation of writing this blog article, I have tried to list some of the areas that the therapist can help with.  Some of those include:

  1. Helping Make the Decision.  Probably most people who seek therapists, at the time they get to
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Print Media Coverage of Child Fatalities When a Human Services Agency is Involved

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Are Child Fatalities Reported Fairly and Ethically By Print Media When The Human Services Agency Is Associated?

child fatalities print media human services agencyWhen a child dies and we learn that a human services agency or department was involved, how well does the print media cover the story? How accurate and thorough is it? Does the story convey sufficient comprehensiveness and perspective to give the reader a solid understanding of the events? Is there any discernible information bias, either intentional or unintentional? Does the writer seem to have an agenda?

In short – is it fair? And, for our purposes, to what extent might a news story have an unintended effect on a subsequent legal proceeding regarding that same child fatality? There is no scientifically valid, objective, approach to accurately answer these questions. Nonetheless, with a sincere effort at intellectual integrity, and given the space limitations, I attempt some meaningful observations. By no means should this be called a “study,” “research” or similar formal term; nor is this effort pro- or anti-department/agency.

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Tax Tips for 2015

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What You Can Do To Minimize Your Tax Burden For 2015

tax tipsIt’s now the time of year to consider what you can do to minimize your tax burden for 2015. Following are some of the tax tips you may want to consider to reduce the amount due to Uncle Sam next April.

  1. Make your charitable deductions before the end of year.  Generally, you can deduct charitable contributions up to fifty percent of your adjusted gross income.  Get rid of those unused items and receive a tax deduction.
  2. Remember that you can gift up to $14,000 per year to each individual with it being exempt from any gift tax reporting requirements to the IRS (or actual gift tax if you have exhausted all of your lifetime gift tax exemption).  If you are planning to make any large gifts, at least make a gift of $14,000 before the end of December to take advantage of this gift tax exemption.
  3. Go to the doctor.  If you itemize your deductions and have enough medical expenses (10 percent of AGI for most individuals), you can deduct these expenses.  If you need new
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Thanksgiving: What Happens When College Students Return Home For The Holidays?

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Parents and College Students Can Find Ways to Peacefully Coexist During Thanksgiving and the Holidays!

thanksgiving college studentsCall it a clash of cultures. Thousands of college students will soon travel home for Thanksgiving, in their minds, returning as independent adults, but still children in the eyes of their parents, says Scott Hall, a family studies professor at Ball State.

“When college students return home for their first Thanksgiving after having been away at school, they might feel like they are caught between two worlds: echoes of childhood dependency, and nearby adult-like independence,” Hall says. “It is easy to feel the tugs of long-established patterns of home life once stepping back into the family system only recently left behind. Such patterns (to the college students) suddenly feel threatening to the ‘new me’ that has been emerging at school.”

He says parents might similarly feel stuck between two worlds: the long-established guardian role versus the recently evolving, remote support staff.

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Ohio Domestic Relations and Juvenile Forms Translated in Five Languages

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Ohio Supreme Court Translates Domestic Relations and Juvenile Standardized Forms into Spanish, Russian, French, Chinese, and Arabic For Public Download

ohio domestic relations formsOver the years, the U.S. Department of Justice has fashioned several consent decrees with several states and has negotiated with them to meet their obligation to provide language access.  Ohio has been active for years in supporting the rights of people in the court system whose English ability is limited.

Last month, the Ohio Supreme Court expanded these services and translated more than two dozen domestic relations and juvenile forms in five additional languages.  The translated forms allow parties with limited English to have a better understanding of court cases involving children and families.

The forms  are now also available in the most used languages in Ohio, including Spanish, Russian, French, Chinese, and Arabic.  When individuals need a domestic relations form in one of these languages, they can click on “Select Another Language.”  There they can find both a Word document and PDF file in the languages.

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Relationship Issues: The Reasons People Fall Out of Love In Marriage

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Numerous Factors Lead To The Demise Of A Marriage Or Relationship According to Author

Will The Dynamics of A Relationship Doom A Marriage? A Review of an Article Published by Healthy Peoples

relationship marriageI was intrigued by an article entitled “Twelve Biggest Reasons People Fall Out of Love” and determined to read/review the article and provide my input to the reasons cited by the author.

  1. The “honeymoon phase” of a romantic relationship is characterized by excitement, lust, sexual intimacy, and a general feeling that “this is it”! However, over time……this “honeymoon phase” does come to an end. The parties may think that if the excitement and lust have gone….is the relationship over? Has it ended? There must be a realization by the parties that the “love” has not evaporated or left….but, that the “honeymoon phase” of the relationship has run its course and is over. This does not mean that the marriage is doomed!!
  2. Some couples have a constant “battle” over who is going to “control” the dynamics of the relationship. These couples are prone to having incidents of anger and domestic violence as the
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Estate Planning Tips for Same-Sex Couples

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Statutory Protections In Estate Planning Now Available To Surviving Spouses Of Same-Sex Marriages

estate planning same-sexNow that the institution of marriage has been sanctioned for same-sex couples, estate planning options and benefits that have not been available before can now be utilized to protect and provide for spouses in same-sex marriages.

Surviving spouses have always been provided certain statutory rights to a deceased spouse’s estate so that they are not completely disinherited.  A surviving spouse is entitled to a “family allowance,” usually the first $40,000 of the deceased spouse’s estate.  The surviving spouse is also entitled to the first two automobiles of the deceased spouse, unless specifically bequeathed to someone else.  The surviving spouse may live in the marital residence rent-free for one year.  The surviving spouse has the option to purchase the marital residence.  The surviving spouse can elect to take against the will.  These are just some of the statutory protections now available to surviving spouses of same-sex marriages.

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