How We Can Help Kids Make Sense of Life’s Injustices Using Advice From A Dayton, Ohio Child Psychologist
“Why did God take mommy to heaven?” asked Haley about the death of her mother due to a drug overdose.
Her dad said that God needed mom in heaven to help him, and that Haley should feel happy that God chose mom. That didn’t make much sense to this young child, so she began asking other people for their opinions.
I know what I was expected to tell her, but being asked questions without answers still leaves me uncomfortable.
Like the rest of us, Haley was trying to make some sense of a world where events often appear unfair, capricious and illogical. Similar questions come up frequently with kids during therapy.
“Why did my parents get a divorce?” “Why did my uncle abuse me?” “Why do other kids make fun of me?” “Why did I get cancer?”
We all adopt some view of the world that allows us to function in spite of life’s many apparent injustices and erratic events.
We may develop faith in an all-knowing God, and trust that the world is developing according to some divine plan.
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